Mini golf and mini dilemma

I went to play mini golf today with Cathy and Kendra (Michael's sister who's about to pop any day now). First time for the kids...they pretty much only played 2 holes and then grabbed our golf balls and put them in...It was fun anyways...I made a hole in one, a really good one. I don't think I am very competitive but I like to win...so, a little...
We also went for ice cream..there was vanilla, chocolate and mixed. The girls were wearing white dresses so...Chocolate for Kyrsten (she's becoming harder to deceive these days), white chocolate for Olivia ;) and mixed for me..No messes, Fun times!!!
Michael approached me today about having a night a week in which we each only have one of them to give them good one on one time. I've suggested this before, I guess men have to feel like they come up with things themselves. It's a great idea (specially because I had it).
I have an awesome person offering to help me build a fence...a gorgeous fence...I really want to, but it would totally wipe me out...And I'm used to be wiped out...but I guess I don't know what I should do...I feel like I'm asking sooo much...Being a grown up...making decisions...Finding the balance between accepting help and asking too much...
OK, I'm pooped...My back hurts like crazy...I guess this is how it feels to get old...
Oh yes! I might have another first date in the horizon...I'm starting to get tired of first dates...I guess you need first dates to go to second dates....We'll see...