Get the Party Started!

I have my Dirty South Costume party tomorrow...I'm going as a southern Belle...I found the costume yesterday and I actually really like it, it's all red with little black polka dots, red had black thick belt and black boots...If my teeth are white enough (I've been whitenning them for a week), I might dare some Red Hot Lipstick...I hate it when people have bad teeth and still wear a flashy color of lipstick...Better if you attracted attention to your eyes...unless the are all red from you-know-what...then you are better off staying home under a blanket.
Anyways, tomorrow. I had asked my girl-friend to come with me. I always have fun with her. But she wasn't home when I called and I doubt her husband will give her the message...I hate going to parties by myself, even when I know a lot of the people...At least I will see her when I go out later to a second party...Yes! I never go out and tomorrow it's two parties...I wont drik too much because 1) I have to drive my babysitter home and 2) Last time I got ddrunk (New Year's) It took me a full 24 hrs to feel better...It's not worth it cause I can be as silly and have as much fun without drinking. Plus, I hate spending money in anywhere but Home Depot so alcohol is not a good investment in my cheap eyes. I hope I have tons of fun...
I asked my Sister in Law to watch my girls for a few hours tomorrow while I do some training for Girls on the Run (I will be coaching track to inocent little middle schoolers!!!), to whcih she responded "I guess"...They are her nieces and the most kissing loving girls in the planet...I wish that once, ever, she would want to watch them..is not like I ask her so much...I am always asking if my niece can spend the night or organizing family nights...IF MY FAMILY WERE HERE...they would be not even asking for them to watch them, there would be fighting ove who watches them...I guess it's always different when it's not your family...
Do you have conflicts with extended family??? Different habits???